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Smile Re: Dwelling on the Negative - 08-05-2007, 03:29 AM

Much appreciated RascallPuff

It is one of those things that sometimes the words flow and feel good. Like dwelling on a negative is not at all a bad thing so long as one is prodding it for a solution.

I sometimes write a bit when it feels inspired but it has to feel good. That time I wanted to agree that to look for solutions you may have to visit some troubling thoughts but in a constructive way.

Sometimes there are no easy answers and that people being people and valuable it hurts when things go wrong. It is a matter of how you approach an issue and your motivation to find an answer. Sometimes it is obvious but means putting that extra effort in.

If you can detach from the emotion a bit and also be fair on yourself as to what is achievable then as hard as an issue is you can only do your best work without succoming to the depressing side of what was negative in the first place.

Even after an incident and working in the railways there were a couple it first helps to have fantastic friends you can share or spill the painful thoughts with. Time heals but focusing as openly on a problem and with friends makes it just that much quicker.

Negative focus for positive result should inspire that's why I wanted to say thank you for putting this here. This feels a bit better so I wont need highlight delete and I hadn't checked my emails for a while so that is something I will correct, cheers.


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