[sillysally]

I used to think that soul mates meant just a pairing of 2 lovers but I think it goes deeper into family relations. I have noticed some odd coincidences occurring with births, deaths and conceptions in my family. I think the only way to test this is to have birth dates and death dates. We all understand that conception is immediate however a women's menstrual cycle last a week, so the conception part of this theory is to give or take a 7 day period. I'll just explain how it happens. The year makes no difference.

My oldest daughter was born on May 21, that is also my grandfathers birthday. Nine months prior to that is my grandmothers birthday, August 28. Here is the give or take conception week, my grandfather was conceived around the time my grandmother was born, except it happened a couple years before she was born.

My grandmother died on December 14, couple years later my youngest daughter was born on September 11, nine months after my grandmothers death day.

So now I have 2 children conceived on the days my grandmother was born and died.

It gets more twisted.

I was born on April 10, my husband was born 9 months later (couple years later too) on January 14.

I don't know if this is real as far as a way to predict soul mate family members but I don't believe in coincidences either.

What's your take on soul mates? If you use my formula, do you have any in your family? What other way (not including feelings) do you know you are with your soul mate?