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Originally Posted by Guille JHuber,
You are not in the wrong forum. I'm not a scientist and I don't reduce the reality of the world to that which is physical. But there is a difference between that, and admitting everything is true. I give different realities to objects of different levels of existence (which have a corresponding level of though and level of talk). Still, the message of my other post hasn't been debated by you. I'm right, the world is not a dictionary, and the love I feel for the girl I'm love with isn't correctly defined as 'the opposite of the hate I feel for Hitler'. For every feeling is unique and isolated from others, there is no repetition, if it is a feeling, it is a new mindfull experience, not a 'third time I fell in love', that is not possible. No comparison is possible between thoughts or feelings. That is why we have art and philosophy, the first is to share feelings and the second is to share thought. |
There are many different types of relationships. There are plutonic relationships, family, work, school, country, city, neighborhood, names, genders, ages, generations, values, etc. Each are different because the subjects are different. They all conform to emotion theory however. The anticipation of a combination is nervousness. The anticipation of a separation is worry. Excessive nervousness is shyness. Excessive worry is fear. Sometimes the term nervousness gets confusing. For example, let's say I'm walking on the ledge of a very tall building. It would be natural for me to say such an act makes me nervous. I could also say that such an act makes me worry I might fall. To say it makes me nervous is anticipating a possible event in time. Time is like an ultimate relationship. It is a procedure and the events in a procedure are related. It is interesting to note that the events in time are also called what happens. Is is a coincidence that the verb 'happen' is alike to 'happiness'? Of course this is an English language phenomenon. Still though, it is not likely a coincidence.
True, no comparison is possible between feelings. Feeling is another word for contentment. When one's feelings get hurt their contentment gets hurt. Since contentment is a position on a relationship, feelings are composed of subjects. Feelings are subjective. They are always different because the subjects are always different. What they do all have in common however is that feelings can be raised or lowered. Raise and lower are relative terms. To raise one's feelings is a proud event. When lowered one gets shamed. When someone else's feelings are raised jealousy occurs. When yours gets raised in relation to someone else you are honored and feel dignified. Note how it is impossible to be jealous of oneself. It is also impossible to be dignified of someone else. Such rules are not simple type rules. Simple type rules can be broken. These rules can't be broken. That's why this system looks like a dictionary.
Your example, "the love I have for my girlfriend is not the opposite of the hate I have for Hitler," is not claimed by me in this system. Although I do say that hate is excessive apathy, I never mentioned love. One could infer that since love is the opposite of hate, love would therefore be excessive empathy. Even though such a definition of love kind of works for me, I don't have the guts to include it in the system. I think love is more complicated than that. Thanks for bringing up the example.
- John