Humans have been fascinated with horses for millennia. No limit to the possibility of relationship between horses and men has ever been found. From "Black Beauty" to "The Black Stallion," readers and movie-goers alike cherish the magical moments when they, too, are in the company of horses.
Whether you’re an equiphile, or just a little curious, here are ten things you may not know about living with horses.
Hints for Horse Owners and Horse Lovers
1. Someone has to be the leader. Here's a hint: whoever controls the others' feet wins. More than your pride will be hurt if the horse is victorious and celebrates by dancing on your feet.
2. The term 'dumb horse' doesn't refer to equine intelligence, but rather their inability to speak as humans. Generally speaking, horses are more effective people trainers than people are horse trainers.
3. Yelling at a horse only confirms their opinion that you are either dangerous or a lunatic. Either way, you lose.
4. Manure is good. The absence of manure production means you will sponsor one more semester at that private college for your veterinarians' kid.
5. Horses, like children, must be taught to hate and be hateful. They were not born that way.
6. No human has ever trumped the horse's capacity to forgive.
7. Horses are not easily impressed. They are more interested in the fly crawling on the barn wall than your wealth, status, connections or pedigree.
8. If you are a student of leadership, there is no better study partner than a horse. You can’t dazzle them with words. No chain of command will cause a horse to follow you; its devotion can only be earned. Everything you learn from a horse will help make you a better person away from the barn. And, horses never lie or ‘spin.’ You get honest feedback – every time.
9. Horses prefer the one who provides security and structure over the one who only offers cookies.
10. The life span of a horse, on average, is about 20-25 years. You can have a horse or you can have a life; you can’t have both. Horses require a huge commitment of time, money, and energy. Life with horses is, however, an investment that pays huge dividends.
No trainer has ever mastered the art of the horse. Probably none ever will. But, the joy of relationship with horses, from the most royally bred Arabian to the shaggiest pony, has been treasured by generations of young folks and those who are only young at heart.