When I was working with students of the horse, I was fortunate, in that they all came to me with a common interest, the strong desire to learn about the subject animal.....that my main interest is interdisciplinary communication. That's more what I'm always working on than any other aspect__than any particular thing I may state__It truly intrigues me how so many of the world's citizens, can not communicate much more than the weather.
Originally posted by Lloyd Gillespie
In horses and humans, I have always found that the easiest to teach were those that had no prior experience with the subject matter. A two or three year old colt, range raised and untouched by humans, is safer to gentle and train than a poorly disciplined pasture pet that has been allowed inappropriate familiarities. Likewise persons who came to me with limited exposure to horses.
With both species again, the first step in teaching was to establish trust and comfort, as a framework in which to learn. That first step could take a very long time, yet once in place, advancement was possible.
Why can so many communicate little beyond the weather?
These are my observations.
1. The weather is equally applied to all, and so provides a common topic of interest.
2. One may comment objectively about the weather without fear of rebuttal. Introduce a subjective opinion (Gee, this rain sucks!) and you will encounter opposition. (Actually, it's great that I don't have to water the garden.)
3. Communication utilizes a great deal of energy, and many people do not have the luxury of time and energy to spare for the learning of and dissemination of multi-disciplinary information.
One can only speak to those matters of which they have experience, by theory or experimentation.
Our brains at birth are perhaps akin to a computer just out of the box, with a processor, hard-drive and RAM. The jury is still out on just how much software we are born with.
In the process of living, we acquire software and data through experience and education, both formal and informal.
How so then, would you expect computers with different software and operating systems to be able to exchange similar, and in some cases very different data, without loss or corruption of same?
This, in my observation, is much of the difficulty in communicating ideas between persons with different education, experience and degree of interest.
That, and the potential and capacity of people is so divergent that there shall be many instances that even when the desire to communicate is strongly felt, there may not be the possibility of thorough comprehension.
Though you spend your life with a significant other, may you really ever know everything about them? Or yourself?
Regards,
Lorrina


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