
Originally Posted by
jim barlow
I think we can be reasonable certain that the time of death is followed by a temporary, transitional process. Its beginning could be compared to a dream state where the subject doesn't realize he's dead, goes through weird changes until he transitions into something totally different. The Tibetans put this process to last about 49 days.
I would guess it may take longer than that, vary a great deal and depends on the kind of death, drugs, sickness, peacefulness, age, surprise, not wanting to let go etc.
As for reluctance, remember, didn't want to get born either? Everything was so nice and cozy until one day the landlord showed up to painfully and unceremoniously throw you out.