When we set goals we humans tend to get distracted for psychological reasons. We all seem to have psychological triggers that, when triggered, light up our emotions and then we just want to argue. Of course, the arguing doesn't help and shuts down any future communication that might help us reach our goal. We're very robotic in how we respond to certain stimuli and have to overcome this to reach the TOE.
As humans we have the ability to stop and think before responding; our response don't have to be automatic. I find that it helps to keep your goal in mind when discussing topics with others. What you see as rudeness in others may not be what was intended. I've read that a persons impact when communicating is 7% what is said, 38% on how it is said, and 55% on body language. So, in these forums, you're not getting the full range of impact that you would if communicating in person.
Wouldn't this be a better world if we were all just like SpokWell ok, maybe not.


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