Naturally, there are many ways to agree with you, Infinite Consciousness, and that pleases me. However, where we disagree may be more interesting for this thread on Nothing:
The overall picture is as simple as placing mother, father, son, and daughter in a pyramid called family. To call the family a nothing is of course ridiculous, yet at the same time it is not something that is actually there by itself; it is something that is based on the members upholding that institution. We can take some members out, and still have a family, but again, only for as long as that concept is actively used by these people (and/or placed upon them by others). Certain animals go through life without the institution of family, being born without anyone to care for them or guide them. We are lucky in that we have the insitution, and if we do not have the specific institution (or not in a 'perfect' way as Hollywood tells us we should have it) then society as a whole still contains the functions of the family (though in many and multi-faceted ways). The life of the flesh (the actual members) and the life of the spirit (the family) are two separate things, yet can be inclusive of each other.
'The other' is of utmost importance for us to go through life, but whether that is your partner, your family, your fascination with (...), or jesus or mohammed, simply does not matter: most people grow up having different people as 'the other' while going through various phases in life. These people are extremely important to us, and help us become who we want to become.
Even an imaginary friend can be helpful, and children can decide to have one (even adults may use this option too, but we call it 'talking to ourselves'). A second position next to our own is extremely helpful, and as long as we are able to come out on the other side being more of who we want to be or more of who we are 'supposed to be' or just happier with who we are — period — it does not matter who takes in that second position, even when that second position matters big time. But let's keep our feet on the ground, and let the pure spiritual guidance be dealt with in another thread. The good news is that even when and no matter how hard we try to not be part a family, we are all part of that largest of families: the human family.


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