As a naive person I have taked a little heat in the past, which has been most beneficial to allow me to delve deeper into a general understanding of the nature of quantum field mechanics. I have grown, intellectually, as a result of my past discussions and now have a greater belief in what I am about to state as my theory, opinion, insightful deductions.
Time is both proper, and relative because it is a property that describes the action of each individual quanta of matter and energy. The essence of time is a potential to kinetic energy release, through the path of least interference, of magnetic field decay into the gravitational field, an endpoint of energy release, transfer. Each reference point, through this process creates it's own proper time.
Relative time is a comparative relationship of the actions of quantum field dynamics between matters and energies independent processes of gravtitational field creation and alignment which is dependent upon factors such as field density and relative frequency (relative speed velosity and acceleration).
Simply stated for those whom I have lost. Time and space are generated by all, and each piece of matter and energy as a monopole field. The monopole fields of all matter and energy align through a constructive wave interference, not by the waves changing but by the source objects, aligning, thus gravity, dark flow, and dark matter's actions. Dark energy is Newton's laws of F=M x A. Where the force is constant, ( demensionally speaking), and mass is decreasing as space is increasing).
Confusing observations become clearly understood once this type of understanding is obtained. Time and space are not warped by matter, but created by matter and energy. It is the interaction of gravitational wave distribution that creates the so called warpage, ie gravity.